Funks typically pass on their own, but that doesn’t mean you need to be stuck in one for the duration. Instead, you can take action to help yourself feel better and happier. We’ll discuss how you can tell if you’re in a funk, and what to do about it to getting you feeling back to yourself as quickly as possible.
What Does Being in A Funk Entail?
Being in a funk means that you feel unhappy, whether that’s with or without a life event that caused it. Sometimes a traumatic event can be the trigger, but other time you might just have a very long bad mood. It also generally means you feel lacking in motivation. These are some of the signs that you’re in a funk:
You feel sad for hours or days on endYou don’t want to do anything that you usually enjoyIt’s hard to engage with othersYou want to stay in comfy clothes like pajamas or sweatsWatching tv or otherwise entertaining yourself passively feels like the only thing you’re up forEating is less enjoyable than usual; alternately, you may want to eat lots of comfort foodsYou feel slowed down, like you’re swimming through mud in order to walkIt’s challenging to do your jobLife feels hopeless
Step 1: Recognize Where You’re At
If a few or more of the above signs that you’re in a funk apply to you right now, the first thing to do to get out of it is to accept that it’s happening. Denial can be tempting, but it doesn’t help anything. You might feel guilty for being in a funk because nothing has gone wrong in your life, or you might feel ashamed because overall, your life is great and you want to be feeling grateful for it.
Step 2: Allow Yourself Rest
Now that you know you’re in a funk, take some time to rest. Rest is vital to our surviving and thriving in life, and it helps everything from our moods to our immune systems. Let yourself take hours, or even a day or two, to gather yourself and just chill out. If you need to schedule this ahead of time due to work, childcare, or other life commitments, that’s fine. Just give yourself a chunk of time to do whatever feels most relaxing to you. You may notice that a period of rest is enough to get you out of a funk. If not, there’s lots more to be done! Let’s look at all the various ways you can take action to help yourself feel better.
Step 3: Take Action
Even though a funk will usually pass on its own, it’s an unpleasant way to be. Being proactive can help you feel like yourself again more quickly. Try one or more of the below to get back on track.
Connect With Others In A Way That Feels Safe
You’re probably not up for a night on the town or playing a sport, and that’s fine: Connection with others doesn’t even need to be in person to be beneficial for your mental health. Reach out to a friend or loved one and let them know you’re in a funk.
Practice Self Care
Self care is anything that you do for yourself that makes you feel taken care of. It relieves stress and can improve your mood, which is the goal here. Self care can be very simple, such as luxuriating in your bathtub with a good book, or it be more complex, like going out and getting your hair done. There are even subscription boxes for self care to help you along. You know what makes you feel the most cared for, so start with those activities.
Give Your Nervous System A Boost
Our vagus nerve is the main nerve bundle of our parasympathetic nervous systems. It plays a pivotal role in helping us feel relaxed instead of stressed. Stimulating your vagus nerve has been shown to be beneficial for relieving stress and improving moods, and is even used to treat depression. There are many ways to stimulate it that are free easy, from humming or singing to cold plunging. There are even quick ear massages that can be highly impactful in helping you reset your nervous system. It takes just a short while, and you may find that vagus nerve stimulation alone is enough to get you out of your funk.
Move Your Body
We all know that exercise benefits our mental health, but if you’re in a funk then chances are a workout isn’t high on your priority list. That’s totally ok! Moving your body at all is better than not. Here are some ways you can help yourself out of a funk through movement, with no weights required.
Dance around in your homeDo some easy and light stretchingTake a short walk–the fresh air can help you perk up, tooGo for a swimToss a ball with a friendJump ropeRoller skate or roller blade
Try to Eat Healthy Foods
Proper nutrition can counter stress and improve our moods, while diets lacking in nutrients can contribute to worsening mental health issues. Nearly all single, whole foods have benefits for your brain, your body, or both. Stock up on nutrient dense foods that can improve your mood by improving your gut flora (where much of our serotonin is produced) or providing important nutrients like omega 3. Vegetables, fish, nuts, and seeds, are prime examples of foods that can help you feel better mentally.
Let Yourself Be Creative
It can feel healing and uplifting to do activities that are creative. Here are some ways you can help lift your mood with creativity.
Draw or paintWrite or journalPlan a vacationStart a craft projectTry cooking or baking something new
Rearrange Your Space
Sometimes changing your environment can help you change your mood. By creating a space that is new and unfamiliar for you, you can potentially trick your brain into thinking differently. This is a safer exercise than taking a risk like cutting your hair, which you may not like the results of, because if you don’t care for the changes, you can just put things back where they were before.
Do Something Good for Others
Acts of kindness have been shown to have mental health benefits for the giver as much as for the receiver. Any act of service can help you to get out of a funk and feel better. For example, you can think of someone who has done something nice for you, and send them a thank you note. You could also make a small donation to a charity that’s important to you, volunteer your time at a local organization, or go through your belongings and donate some items that you no longer use or need.
A Word From Verywell
It’s important to understand the difference between being in a funk and suffering from depression. Always seek professional help if you think you may be experiencing a mental health issues or crisis; therapists are available online and in person to aid with your mental well being.
