This article discusses the differences between an open AA meeting and a closed AA meeting (and similar 12-step groups). It also explores how to determine which type of meeting might be right for you. Follow Now : Apple Podcasts / Spotify / Google Podcasts
Closed 12-Step Meetings
Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon Family Groups, and Adult Children of Alcoholics meetings are generally closed meetings unless otherwise stated. Closed meetings are limited to members and prospective members only. It is up to individuals to determine if they are qualified for membership based on the following criteria from Tradition 3 of the 12 step groups:
ACOA: The only requirement for membership in ACOA is a desire to recover from the effects of growing up in a family affected by alcoholism or another dysfunction. Al-Anon Family Groups: The only requirement for membership is that there be a problem of alcoholism in a relative or friend. Alcoholics Anonymous: The only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking. Debtors Anonymous: The only requirement for DA membership is a desire to stop incurring unsecured debt. Gamblers Anonymous: The only requirement for Gamblers Anonymous membership is a desire to stop gambling. Narcotics Anonymous: The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop using drugs.
If you are interested in attending a closed meeting for any of these groups, it may be good to check beforehand to make sure that you are considered a member.
Reasons for Closed 12-Step Meetings
The spiritual foundation of all 12-step groups is anonymity. Members of the group can choose to attend closed meetings, knowing that everyone in the meeting is guided by the group’s steps and traditions. This encourages each member to maintain their own anonymity and the anonymity of others in the meeting.
Open 12-Step Meetings
If the meeting is an open meeting, members understand that there may be visitors from the public or even the media in the meeting, and they conduct themselves accordingly. Usually, but not always, open meetings are speaker meetings, at which one person has been designated to speak, telling their story—what it was like, what happened, and what their life is like now. The speaker knows ahead of time that the meeting is an open meeting and that there may be non-member visitors present. However, open meetings can also be discussion meetings. During open discussion meetings, AA members will share their experiences with the rest of the group. They might talk about why they started attending AA and how the group has helped them. These open meetings may focus, in particular, on how non-members can help support their loved one who is a member of the group. Open meetings can be attended by any, including but not limited to:
The general publicPeople who don’t have a drinking or substance use problemPeople who are thinking about joining AAFamily members of people who are in AA or who have a substance problem
Primary Purpose of Open Meetings
The designation of a meeting as “open” does not change the meeting’s primary purpose of the group. Generally speaking, when attending one 12-step meeting, members do not mention their membership in other 12-step groups during the meeting to keep the meeting focused on its primary purpose. One of the benefits of an open meeting is that the individual’s partner or other loved ones can attend. This can be helpful for a variety of reasons. Individuals in recovery can feel supported as they work toward recovery, and the loved ones who are closest to them can learn more about their experiences and the recovery process. Having social support has been linked to a number of important benefits, including better treatment retention and a reduced risk of relapse following treatment.
Open vs. Closed: Which Meeting Is Right for You?
How do you determine whether a closed or open meeting is the right choice for you? Both types of 12-step meetings can be helpful, but there may be times you want to select one over the other. You may want to attend an open meeting if:
You are thinking about joining AA or another 12-step groupYou want to hear more from people who are affected by alcohol or substance useYou want to have non-member friends or family come along to support youYou’re interested in learning more about the recovery process
You might prefer closed meetings if:
You don’t want family or friends to be presentYou want to listen to others who have the same experiences as youYou want to share your experiences with other members of the groupYou are working closely on a specific step and want input from other members
It is also important to note that online meetings are also an option. Like in-person meetings, online AA meetings can either be closed or open. This can be a great option due to the convenience and accessibility of the meetings.
A Word From Verywell
Twelve-step groups such as AA can play an important role in recovery. It is important to consider what you might gain from each type of meeting these groups offer, whether they are open or closed. If you are interested in joining AA or attending an open meeting to learn more, you can find meetings in your area or online by visiting the Alcoholic Anonymous website.
