It may feel like you’re never going to stop missing cigarettes, but don’t let these thoughts fool you. You can absolutely live nicotine-free. While coping with thoughts about smoking isn’t easy, remember it’s only temporary. The tips below will help you build a strong mindset for smoking cessation.
Cope With Withdrawal Symptoms
Nicotine is such a powerful drug that it changes how your brain works over time. Your body becomes so accustomed to nicotine and its effects that even when you stop smoking, you still feel like you need nicotine to function. You may feel irritable, sad, and even depressed after you quit smoking. Most people have thoughts that try to convince them to have one more cigarette or to give up on quitting entirely because it’s so uncomfortable. Nicotine withdrawal symptoms are usually the most intense about three days after quitting. After a few weeks to a month, symptoms may lessen. In some cases, people continue to experience nicotine withdrawal for months after quitting, in which case, it’s best to consult a doctor or health professional about your symptoms. When you quit, the goal is to find a way to cope with withdrawal symptoms so that you don’t go back to smoking. Smoking cessation medication or nicotine replacement therapy (NRT) may help. Medication like Chantix (varenicline) or Zyban (bupropion) may help reduce cravings, and NRT products may make the symptoms of withdrawal less intense, so you can better cope with addictive thought patterns. Of course, it’s advised to speak with a healthcare provider about your best options for handling withdrawal.
List Your Reasons for Quitting
Try keeping a quit journal or a list of reasons why you quit smoking in the first place. You may also write a reason why you quit on a sticky note and post it on your bathroom mirror or on your refrigerator where you will see it every day. Any time you have a thought about smoking, look at your quit journal or sticky note to remind yourself of your motivation to live smoke-free. This exercise can help take your mind off of what you’re losing by quitting, and instead, shift the focus to what you’re gaining. Try the following prompt. At the top of a piece of paper, write, “Now that I’ve quit smoking…”, and underneath, list all the benefits you’ll receive (even if you haven’t received them yet). The following are some examples for inspiration:
My health is improving every day. I’m lowering my risk of cancer and other illnesses. I feel better; I don’t feel out of breath when I climb stairs. I don’t have to leave the dinner table to go outside and smoke. I set a good example for my family when I don’t smoke. I no longer smell like cigarette smoke. I’m saving money by not purchasing cigarettes.
Reframe Your Thoughts
Addictive thought patterns are tricky because they’ll try to convince you that you’re missing out on smoking. Reframing these thoughts can be a helpful way of realizing you don’t need to listen to that little voice telling you to go out and buy another pack. While it can be difficult to erase a thought from your head, you can acknowledge it and put the emphasis on quitting instead of smoking. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) has been found to be an effective method of helping people cope with unwanted thoughts and urges when they quit smoking. A therapist can work with you to reframe your thoughts.
Know Your Triggers
The thoughts you have about smoking are intensified by smoking triggers. Common triggers include being around people who are smoking, going to places where you used to smoke, and drinking alcohol. If you always smoked first thing in the morning or in the evening after dinner, for example, you can expect to have strong thoughts about cigarettes during those times of the day after you quit. Changing your routine can be a useful tool when you’re going through nicotine withdrawal. For example, if you always smoked a cigarette before bed, try doing something else instead like going for a walk. Replace the ritual of smoking with a new habit. Keep helpful items on hand like crunchy snacks or sugar-free candies to give you something to occupy your hands and your mouth instead of using cigarettes. You may also want to steer clear of places or people that remind you of smoking until you’ve gotten through the early days of withdrawal. Changing your environment can be the difference between giving in to a thought about smoking and managing the thought in a more adaptive way.
Practice Mindfulness
There are many ways to practice mindfulness, including meditation, yoga, and deep breathing exercises. Mindfulness can be taking just a few minutes out of your day to pay attention to the sensations in your body or to the sounds inside your house or on the street. Practicing mindfulness means realizing that you are not your thoughts. Just because you have a thought, doesn’t mean you need to act on it. When you have a thought about smoking, you can simply acknowledge it, let it be, and wait for it to pass.
Engage in Self-Care
Taking care of your basic needs can go a long way in managing difficult thoughts during nicotine withdrawal. You may be more likely to think about cigarettes when you lack energy, so be sure to get enough sleep every night and eat a nutritious diet as well. Exercise can be a great activity to boost energy levels and manage stress. If you’re overwhelmed by addictive thought patterns during nicotine withdrawal, doing something physical can help get you out of your head and into your body. Try dancing to some music or taking a quick walk. Ask yourself: What makes me feel good? Whether it’s listening to music in your room, going for a drive on a sunny day, or seeing a movie with a friend, make a list of the activities that bring you joy, and remember to schedule downtime for yourself.
Join a Support Group
You may find comfort in being able to talk to other people who are quitting smoking, too. By joining a support group, whether in-person or online, you can learn from other people’s experiences. You may find inspiration and tips on coping with thoughts about smoking. Quit smoking apps are full of advice on quitting smoking effectively. Many of them track your progress and some even send daily messages of encouragement.
Don’t Give Up
Addictive thought patterns during nicotine withdrawal can feel incredibly powerful and persuasive. Try not to criticize yourself for slipping up. Be compassionate toward yourself and remember that most people quit many times before they quit for good. If you smoke again after quitting, try to quit again as soon as possible.
A Word From Verywell
Quitting smoking is challenging, but you don’t have to do it alone. Rely on the coping mechanisms, healthy habits, support systems, and withdrawal treatment that work best for you. If you need more support, talk to a healthcare provider about more resources that will help you quit smoking for good.
